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[โ€“] guy 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The more control I have, the more likely I am to wake up, which is pretty annoying. Although, on the flip side, waking up through choice to avoid bad dreams is how I originally developed the skill of lucid dreaming. Noticing the signs of waking up and choosing to stay asleep is kind of a weird thing to do too, but it can lead to sleep paralysis.

However in any case, the level of control I have varies. Often, I am able to fly from danger or decide something didn't happen and try again. More rarely I know there are no consequences to any of my actions and can completely control space, time and narrative. It's odd knowing it's a dream, but it still feels real. Though, still with a dream brain memory and dream logic, I'm not necessarily thinking as sensibly as I would do when awake.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Noticing the signs of waking up and choosing to stay asleep is kind of a weird thing to do too, but it can lead to sleep paralysis.

Whoa, whoa, careful what things you're saying here. This could make me, at least, worry about going back to sleep

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

This is how I use control with lucid dreaming. If something is taking a wrong turn I just say "No" and either remove the bad part or rewind on something that doesn't make sense. I don't really want to actively control the dream because I want to know what my subconscious is trying to tell me.