Damaskox

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Roman World in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

They had some work to be done.

What different things are considered emotionally exhausting? in c/asklemmy
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

I have a hard time most of the time when I get constructive criticism at work!

What different things are considered emotionally exhausting? in c/asklemmy
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I guess some people enjoy the action and the nervousness!

I have found catharsis in watching extreme violence, as an example

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What different things are considered emotionally exhausting? (kbin.social)
 

Pretty much what the title asks!

What are you using AI (ChatGPT, Perplexity AI) for in your daily routine? in c/asklemmy
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Not a daily routine.

I've been doing some visual character stuff for my fictional story!
It's nice to actually see some characters visually for the story - it adds to the motivation to work on it 😁

Rust seems to be a coding language in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I didn't mean that service 😁

Scientists Reveal Why Using ChatGPT To Message Your Friends Isn’t a Good Idea in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

You can also start training your "calm down" skill and the sub-skill of writing neutral or even positive things while being pissed!

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Rust seems to be a coding language (kbin.social)
 

Just dropping this here so others who stumble upon this magazine get some idea what this place is about 😁

What is your ideal environment for relaxation? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Computer and some music that fits the mood.

If you were given a choice between a fancy boat or a fancy car, which would you pick? You can't sell either. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Fancy car.
I'd give it away in a heartbeat though.

Do you ever feel like you're chained down by your past - things you can't let go of, things you wish you could still do? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Start small with the process. Start getting a big picture of all the issues, little by little.

I'm not ok in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I don't think you need to spill it all out at once!

Start with something small and work with it as far as you have resources to do so.
If the small thing grows bigger quickly, just be patient and take a pause when you need one.

A creepy girl, sitting around grass in c/cursed_images
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Would be interesting to meet her at least!

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The powerful need/feeling not to try sexualizing specific people or fictional characters (kbin.social)
submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/general
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Have you ever come across a person/character that you may feel deep connection, or respect, or deep admiration towards - and then, at some point, all of the sudden, they are somehow about to come in light in a sexual perspective, and then you suddenly find a strong feeling in yourself that seeing them as a sexual creature all of the sudden feels terribly weird, wrong, crazy, scary, horrible etc?

Why do we not want to see or consider some people or characters as sexual people at all? (I'm not looking at people you'd find normally unappealing to start with).
Even if we would get somehow interested at this new point of view, at least to a point, we just cannot seem to be able to cross that strange border?

Is it some kind of "ruining your childhood" effect?

seeking a dentist in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I suppose it depends on how they feel about you!

Naturally, if she considers you as their enemy, pain and horror would be something normal to be experienced in such a situation!

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The relationship between a Human and an Android (romantic or not) (kbin.social)
 

Thoughts about it?
Could it be a good thing? Could it be dangerous? Should it be explored or banned?
What about ethics? Android rights? Freedom? Android feelings?

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I still keep losing comments. (kbin.social)
 

I still keep losing comments.
Stuff pointing from notifications lead to no such comment - cannot find anything with Ctrl+F and I see no page numbers or any other indicators of any other pages existing.

#kbinMeta

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Heists like seen in Die Hard I actually exist? (kbin.social)
submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/general
26 comments fedilink
 

Watching the movie at the moment.

It woke up a question.
Do we have successful heists like what we can see in the movie in real life?

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Jouluradio (kbin.social)
 

Jouluradio

Hauskoja lomia!

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MERRY CHRISTMAS (media.kbin.social)
submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/general
1 comments fedilink
 

MERRY CHRISTMAS

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Morbid Curiosity: Content about strange/bizarre/disturbing stuff (kbin.social)
 

!morbidcuriosity
Kbin link

I'm the creator of the community (since it wouldn't exist otherwise).
It has already lots of topics/threads even though it's next to a ghost town 😅

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Morbid Curiosity: A community for weird/disturbing/etc content (such as discussions) (kbin.social)
 

!morbidcuriosity
Kbin link

I'm the creator of the community (since it wouldn't exist otherwise).
It has already lots of topics/threads even though it's next to a ghost town 😅

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Do you have a story about when you saw snow for the first time? (kbin.social)
 

Care to share it with us?

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She scolds me about not buying anything in the bar we hang at (kbin.social)
submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
64 comments fedilink
 

Greetings.
I'm in quite of a pickle here, and just thinking about it will get me nowhere.

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I attend a group hobby weekly.
Quite often we go for a follow-up hang-out in the local bar. I recall everyone else buying a drink and coming to sit down to have a chat.
I don't buy anything. I wait for the first of us ordering and then I follow them to the table.

One of our attendees has commented on my behavior twice so far.
First she said that I'm a bum. That I use the bar's staff and the place for my own benefit. There's a chance that she said that in front of someone else.
Last night she commented that I'm still doing this (we two sat alone for a while). She's afraid that they'll throw us out because of my behavior.

I explained that I rarely buy stuff from bars.
On the second comment I said that I'll probably continue this behavior to the end of times and they won't throw us out because everyone else spends money. And that my friend said that she or her friends do the same thing quite commonly.
I could have felt her loathing upon me.

I don't have the money to buy pricy consumables.
I have my own water bottle and sometimes snacks from a market to keep my belly full enough. Or then I don't eat anything and eat later.
I'm there because of the company.

The employees haven't commented anything about my behavior. I don't know, would they even care.

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Thoughts?
Am I unfair or is she?

I'm thinking about asking her next time that should I just leave if I'm such a bother to her.
I'm also thinking about suggesting us to talk about this as a group.

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EDIT: I don't think this is about alcohol. I believe most of them order something else cos it's late Monday and most people go to work the next day.
EDIT2: We don't have the tipping culture here.
EDIT3: Thanks for all the comments! You give my mind and feels some peace 💗

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