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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/aitasister611 on 2023-06-26 14:05:41+00:00.
My (39f) sister(32f) had a birthday get together recently and brought together a group of girls for a day at the beach, I'd say I knew about half the girls there before hand. We all had a great time and all the girls seemed pretty nice.
However after the swim we went into a public changing room next to the beach for changing into dry clothing. The only issue was 2 of the girls were trying to enter with everyone else, lets call them M and N. They're both gay and openly in a relationship, which I don't have an issue with, but it definitely is a little uncomfortable undressing in front of them.
I know they wouldn't have tried anything, but I have a lot of guy friends I knew wouldn't try anything either that I still wouldn't want to get undressed in front of.
With this in mind I asked them to wait outside the changing room before everyone else got changed. M and N got offended and started calling me all sorts of things. Stuff about how ignorant I am, with most of the girls taking their sides. Eventually it all calmed down but later on my sister told me how annoyed she was at me "insulting" her friends.
YTA. If you’re the only person it bothers then you’re responsible to wait to change by yourself, instead of demanding others bend to your insecurities, that are kind of homophobic and more than a little conceited.