We’re naturalized Americans with no family in the US, so we don’t have anyone to ask what they’re doing. Also, advice about it online is remarkably inconsistent, ranging from like $20 a month to $2000 a month. I understand that it’s because it is strongly dependent on personal finance and priorities, and nobody’s going to have a straight answer for me, but still, I am interested, what is everyone else doing, and what is the thinking that landed you on that number?
Obviously, I have no idea what my kids will want to be, so I can’t use that as signal. Doctor? Painting artist? Woodworker? Nobel-prize-winning physicist? Beats me!
Some details about my personal situation: I don’t really have any major financial goals except for this and my retirement (I own my house and it’s paid for). So, I can put some decent money in there, but this is competing with my retirement funds, and it’s important to me that I don’t depend on my own kids during my old age, so I don’t want to overdo it.
A thought I had, but I don’t know if it’s relevant: with the recent ability for kids to convert to a Roth IRA up to $35k with no penalties if they don’t use the funds, has that become the new golden number?
We have a six-month old and decided that we don't want to go too deep into a 529. Neither of us went to college and we're successful, so we don't want to assume she'll want to.
We figure 10-20k is a reasonable amount for her to have in there. We assume she'll be able to use that much even without college. We're dropping a few thousand dollars in there now, and I'm going to add a little bit over time. We're doing a regular taxable account for her also that I'll be putting more money into.
I think this is all very sensible thinking. Thanks a lot for sharing.