This dude posts a wildly racist meme of Michelle Obama. I report the post. Funnily enough, the racist post is posted by the mod of dankmemes, dankchristianmemes and some other shit hole.

Said mod then starts sending abusive transphobic messages to me. Try to report the user. Nothing happens when I hit the button.

Shit like this is why Lemmy isn't a viable alternative yet. We need to do better and be better.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Things you can do in increasing order of broadness (and difficulty):

Block the user.
Block the communities.
Report the PMs if they are against the rules of the user's instance. The admin of the instance should see the report and take action.
Contact the admins of the communities' instance(s) if this is against those instances' rules/moderation policies. (As far as I know there is no way to report a whole community yet). The admin of the instance(s) should see your messages and take action.
Contact the admins of your instance if this is against your instance's federation or remote content policy. They may ban the community and user at an instance level, or even defederate from that instance that allows the abuse.
Move to a different instance. If you want admins that will take action on these issues you likely want to be on some other instance that is more proactive when it comes to moderation. Some people give beehaw shit for being aggressively moderated and defederated, but this is exactly the sort of thing they are fighting against.
Run your own instance and block that user/community/instance from an instance level. If all else fails you can have full control and would be able to take all of the "admin" actions I mention above.

In my opinion the ability to do all of these actions is why Lemmy is the most viable alternative I've seen. You are more in-control of your destiny and experience on this platform than anywhere else I've seen.

If you need help with doing any of what I mentioned don't hesitate to ask.

[–] i_simp_4_tedcruz 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did the first 3 steps and the deafening silence told me all I needed to know. The admin of the community is the harasser. Instance admin did not act of the report(s). Lemmy is too new and I have no real affection for it, so moving to another instance in the hopes that new admins will finally do something is not even on the table. Running my own instance sounds as appealing as running my own email server for all of the same reasons.

I appreciate your attempt at help, but very few users are going to jump through that many hoops for something that should just happen.

[–] SpaceAape 10 points 1 year ago

But even having the ability to do these things speaks volumes. With lemmy you actually have the option do to do all these things, and yeah they take effort for the amount of control you want. Limiting yourself like that is limiting your own freedoms yourself in exchange for convenience. Im actually considering running my own instance just for fun.