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In the beginning people will be weirded out but as it progresses I hope it gets better as it will help a lot of people. It will also be a beneficial tool for a lot of people. I am one of those that would consider it.
I am not interested currently in a relationship and probably won’t be again with a human. Because honestly I am to spoiled of my own independence and hate compromise.
Compromise doesn’t have to be big things. It is small things. Things like what are we going to eat tonight? Should things be here or there. I want to wake up suddenly at 3am and decide to make noise.
Independence like if I decide this week I want to go to London. This week I just want to sit silently ignoring the world. If I want see my family or friends I can just do it.
When a relationship turns more into a checklist of this I want and this I don’t want. Is it really a fiesable?
Nah I rather have someone that doesn’t have their own life. Instead complements my lifestyle, has my hobbies and ideas.
Simply give me those great parts of relationship’s but not the lows.