Am I the Asshole?

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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Public-Med on 2023-06-24 02:50:16+00:00.

For context we are in a 6 year relationship, not married.

My wife is 8 months pregnant and driving me insane. Before she was pregnant we didn’t have many issues but now, anything I do isn’t good enough. My cooking is shit, I don’t do laundry correctly, I don’t clean well enough/miss too many spots.

The last straw was my wife saying my foot message wasn’t good enough. Since she told me that (9 days ago) I have been responding with ‘do it yourself’, after she tells me it isn’t good enough.

Yesterday the tire from our car needed to be replaced while we were at the side of the road. I admit it, I suck at changing tires. My wife told me I was going too slow, and I told her she could do it herself. She said no, and I refused to work on the tire again for 30 minutes.

When we got home she was angry because she needed to go to toilet during those 30 minutes. She called me an asshole and inconsiderate and a bunch of other stuff. I just went to our bedroom to relax for a bit.

In defence of my wife, the pregnancy is difficult on her and she had quite a few problems.

When we went to sleep, she wasn’t talking to me, saying that I am an asshole. I am kinda feeling bad now, AITA?