Because the one who can actually cause change. You should usually hold the oppressor to a higher moral standard than the oppressed.

Quote me where I said one side was worse. Do it. You're adding words and meaning that were never there.

Murdering innocent people is bad, it's not a crazy concept. I'm sure those children would feel so much better about being murdered after seeing your perspective. (Just in case, of course they wouldn't.)

I didn't specify a party again, because the whole point is that it's horrible that innocent people are dying. It's very odd that that's controversial to you. A child doesn't deserve to die more just because they're on one side of the border. Just like they wouldn't deserve to die more for being on the other side of the border.

Some of us value life, you know?