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So i have a problem with almost constatly being bored also ima young adult so boredom is kinda common around this time. you might be shocked but i cant drive yet becasue im not intersted also im super afraid to drive. i spend most my time indoors becasue it shot outside and scary (thats the dessert for ya). i usally watch youtube and sometimes i play video games but i just want to do something more with my life, ya know? im just not sure what.

also i feel like i post about this kind of stuff way too much... i also want money but i also want to have fun which is annoying.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Exercise, reading, video gaming, watching movies, painting, sculpting, weaving, virtual reality, photo editing, origami, drawing, Lego, electronics, programming.... I mean, there's a lot of things you could do.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

you make some good points but i just feel like i stink at everything even simple things, idk maybe im just depressed. ive been wanting to make a game lately but i keep trying and trying but no matter how hard i try i just cant. also can you explain some of the things you listed like electronics, what do you mean by that?

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

It's totally OK to stink at stuff, it would be weird if you were just somehow automatically good at it. Don't give up, even if you just do a little bit every day. Hobbies take time and practice and every hobby isn't going to interest every person: Try out different stuff to learn what you like!

Except exercise, just do that one even if you don't like it at first: It's a great way to help cope with depression too. I go for walks every day and that alone has done a lot for my mental health.

By electronics I mean learning about electrical engineering, how circuits work, etc.