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I'll admit, I tend to be this way sometimes- It's something I'm unlearning.
Get into the habit of - "I don't know that thing, let's look up how to do it!"
Everyone IRL thinks I'm some sort of fucking genius, but I'm just some dude who knows how to type what I don't know into Google and watch YouTube videos...
Conversations with my family members...
Me: I did this interesting thing
Grandma: You're so smart, I don't know how you can do this stuff
Me: ...I looked it up. You could look stuff up too.
Grandma: Oh, no, I'm not smart like you.
Me: (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
Yeah, I've made a lot of progress, its just a big change of perspective to internalize. I think for me its mostly fear of failure, and I'm working to internalize that failure is good and important even if it feels bad