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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I was like you at that age, it stinks to feel unlovable, it's the loneliest feeling ever.

That said I quit my job, went back to uni and finished something i should have long time ago. In that process I met my current wife, at 37.

So never give up hope. Instead of investing time in others, try learning to love yourself a bit more. If you don't approach every woman as a potential mate but just as a person it gets better, too.

I know it's easy to say from where I am right now, but best of luck and much strenght, bro!