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I'm at a crossroads in life where I need to start making large and impactful decisions about my future. It's a very lonely place to be.
Will my long term relationship last? Do I want it to? Will I try to stay in this (IRL) community? Do I want to? Will I stay in this career path? Can I afford not to?
Etc.
Usually I'd talk to my partner about all this, but because our relationship is also part of my issues, I feel like I can't. So as a result... I'm feeling lonely and overwhelmed.
I was there 5 years ago. We mutually decided to break up and it was really rough at first. When I met my current partner last year, I started to realize just how toxic that last relationship was. I found myself realizing that I didn’t have to walk on eggshells anymore. When you meet the right person, you’ll know because you won’t have as many of those kinds of doubts.