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How do parents stay fit while they have little ones? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I used to be fit, running, cycling, partner acrobatics, etc. But I have done very little cardio, strength, or flexibility training since our wonderful daughter came along. She doesn't sleep well so part of the problem is energy. But the main issue is finding time. My partner and I both work remotely, I have a 08:00-16:30 tech job and my partner teaches music online in the evenings. So I'm either working, playing with my daughter, or exhausted. I'm not complaining, I love my life and being a dad. I want to stay fit and healthy so I can be my daughter's father for as long as possible. I also don't want to be hard on myself, I know these toddler years will fly past if I'm not mindful. How do other parents maintain fitness? We don't have any extended family close.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Integrating your kid into your routine is key in my opinion:

Toddlers are a nice progressive weight and you can e.g. do some kettlebell exercises like swings with them and they will be happy
You can do things like pushup to pike and the kid can crawl underneath you each time you're in pike position etc. Be creative, make it a game and they will have fun
Do simple exercises together: Some simpler yoga things, airsquats and even things like turkish getups (and give them something like a TP roll as weight) work.
Play with them while you're resting. Most kids can play for themselves for small periods of time. You could also make that a game: Give them a task ("run to X and back") and see who finishes first.
Cardio: Lots of people like to run with a running stroller. Personally I prefer to bike and having a kid on your MTB in something like a "MacRide" or "Kids ride shotgun" seat is really fun. Even now with a 4 1/2 yo (@18kg + seat) it's fun although sometimes I wish my surroundings wouldn't be so hilly.

[–] _pete_ 1 points 1 year ago

This is a great shout.

Super little kids (less than a year old or so) can’t really do much so you’ll probably have to deal without heavy exercise for a bit, but you can start - for want of a better term - chucking them about a bit (lifting them above your head, carrying them everywhere) when they are small they’ll have fun too.

Eventually you can start running with them when they get bikes or bouncing on a trampoline when they get bigger.

They tend to follow what their grown ups do so get them involved and it’ll be good for both of you!