I don't know if you've noticed this, but threads or comments about Lemmy or the Fediverse get downvoted a lot on Reddit and trolls who claim that it's "dogshit" and "not going anywhere" get systematically upvoted.
Some of those trolls get then exposed when you ask them what Lemmy instance they tried and one of them with whom I had a surreal exchange answered with something like "yeah ofc I used Lemmy, this is the instance: join-lemmy.org" π€¦ββοΈ
It's frustrating that these trolls keep contributing to the big lie that "Lemmy is not ready yet" and that there's "no viable alternative to Reddit".
This and the overwhelming number of comments being "against the mod protests" just prompts me to question whether there isn't some brigading being organized straight from the Reddit HQ.
The people who like it are here. The people that don't are still there. Not that complicated.
Also, people have a natural tendency to form "teams." Even if they don't particularly like what Reddit's admins have been doing they may identify as part of "team Reddit" and so see other teams as the enemy.
Besides, the way to convert isn't by arguing. You do it by providing a good platform (not there yet), good content (not there yet) and good community (kinda there?).
Yup.
Don't get dragged down into the mud. They're kicking up shit because they feel like they're losing something. Like the thing they like is under attack and in danger. Getting into fights with them not only validates their feelings, it makes everyone else see it as a "both sides" thing.
<insert "I don't think about you at all" meme>
I'd say we're at "okay platform" level, and "okay content if you're into the specific things we've got okay content for at this point."
It's a gradual process. The Fediverse is slowly getting better, and Reddit is slowly getting worse, and eventually someday they'll pass each other in the wilderness.
I've just read up on that experiment on Wikipedia and the conclusion you present seems to be shortcoming to tell nicely. Reassuring to me was that the two groups occasionally ganged up on the experimenters, being aware they're being manipulated. Thanks for mentioning this, yet for me it seems to be way more to it than '2 groups will fight inevitably '
Sorry, it was a pithy quote. It's not meant to fully encapsulate the results of the study, it just seemed relevant and likely to bring some pleasure to people.
Obviously, people are more complicated than can be fully captured in a single statement, but there is some truth there; look at how hostile people can get over sports teams, which are never going to affect people's access to food, shelter, medical care, etc, and which are still treated with life of death seriousness by their adherents, who largely differ in which location they happen to originate.
yup exactly that, I'm getting more and more used to, and happy with this place, I just still kind of have a hope to migrate over one community, but I don't think they are willing, and it's hard to find people that are interested :p
Amen, if Reddit ever died it would probably survive living rent free in Lemmy usersβ heads.
Eh, Digg is nothing more than a historical note to most who left in the exodus, but there was a time when it made up a large % of the posts on Reddit. People will move on, but for now the wounds are still fresh.