- Stop declining when people invite you to stuff.
- Stop being picky about activities/food/music/etc.
- Be vigilant/safe, yet open minded, open to new experiences, spontaneous.
- Plan trips and events, both budget friendly and splurgy, then actually commit to doing them.
- Smile and laugh n shit.
- Compliment people, thank people, be considerate to others even if it's not always reciprocated.
- When it is reciprocated, gravitate more towards that person, and gravitate slowly away from people who don't seem to appreciate you.
this post was submitted on 02 Sep 2023
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