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Lemmings, why did you decide to never confess to someone that you liked so much? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by Asudox to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I decided not to confess to a coworker because I had learned that lesson the hard way at a previous job. I figured it would be better to not mix work and dating. Unfortunately as time went on I grew infatuated with this coworker and it took a combination of meditation, medication, and real intense personal work to realize that my infatuation was really just my mind's way of trying to distract me from my own anxiety and depression. So I focused on that and ended up getting a better job and meeting someone who was such a significantly better match for me.