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Forgot we were dating when she was the one who started the relationship.
What's the story behind that? Did she claim she just "forgot" and cheated? Were you "on a break"?
Nope. She actually straight up forgot.
I introduced her to this place I would usually go to hang out in the community, and she'd tell everyone who asked if we were dating that we weren't. I didn't say anything because, being young and dumb, I just kinda assumed she was being shy and didn't want to share with anybody.
Come a few days later, we were hanging out at the park close to her place, and while we were talking on the swings, she casually starts bringing up to me how she met this guy at a event her friend invited her to, and how he asked her out. I was confused, said I thought we were dating, and then after thinking over for a moment in confusion, you could see the moment of realization when she basically said "oh yeah, we were, whoops".
that is not a 'whoops' moment, i hope you broke up with her after that, or you werent even dating (da dum tsss) i hope you are alright and you found someone :)
How does one forget that they're dating someone? Did you guys not talk for weeks or something?