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I'm a "Rule-Follower". Am I a champ or a chump? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by wilberfan to c/[email protected]

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I wait for the WALK sign, I keep it to no more than 5 mph over the speed limit, I use my blinkers, I never jump the line, I keep to the watering schedule, pass the SMOG test every other year, file accurate tax returns...

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

There is nuance to rule following. If you're following blindly and never question why the rule is in place, then you're a chump. If you question the rule and conclude that it's there for a good reason and follow it, you're a champ.

Some rules are arbitrary but society expects them to be followed. Going outside the bounds of these rules can cause upset, so following them is generally the safer bet. However if there's a rule in place that prevents your happiness, and breaking it has no negative consequences, just fucking do it.