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This also happens to a lesser degree with "the nearest large & fairly progressive city" I grew up in Madison, WI, fell in love with a girl from a small town across the state and we moved in together, got married started a family etc. So the dogwhistling that happens when you talk about the nearest liberal big city is real. I'm selective about who I tell that I grew up in Madison, and I listen for the obvious dogwhistling like "oh I try to avoid Madison as much as possible" "oh I really don't like Madison"
And now that trumpian politics have had a chance to really take hold we're planning on moving to a larger city, in part because we dont want our kids growing up around so much racism. When local online communities, local organizations and local community meeting places (aka the local bars) are riddled with dogwhistley comments because people feel comfortable saying them (which wasn't so bad just a few years ago!) It's just not pleasant
Exactly right! Conservatives will say this about literally any nearby city, the only thing I've been able to come up with is that they're petrified of the city, just pure fear. Even something as small as Madison they'll dogwhistle up and down on because they've never been and they're terrified of it. Anything new or different is bad, of course.
I don't know that they're actually afraid. I think they are just signaling group affiliation and have chosen to side with the bosses.
Oh no I've seen pure fear, bringing rural friends to my city to hang out has had legit fear with them. It's stuff that will pass, but simple things like jumping on a train to go downtown or walking down a busy street will freak them out. Crowds and people sure, but there is truly a layer of fear that they've been taught about going into cities