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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Samurai. They were freaking rich, ate good food and married well. They did good deeds and shit and had plenty of time for self reflection and improvment.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Good deeds like maintain the brutal feudalism which stunted Japans growth for centuries