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I mean... I come from the forum scene and they were always called PMs, as in Private Message. What in the hell does DM stand for and when did things change from people calling them PMs to DMs.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

DM is direct message and seems to have started around the same time things culturally shifted away from forums and boards more toward social media.

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

And now people don't even understand me, like I wrote "I'll PM you" and they said "What ๐Ÿคจ" ๐Ÿคฆ.

Guess I'll have to shift from using PM to DM... though it seems completely illogical to me, but hey, that's life I guess.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

"I'll Prime Minister you"

"I'll prime meridian you"

"I'll post mortem you"

"I'll prima dona you"

"I'll Pringle Mingle you"

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Gonna steal "pringle mingle", sounds like a great insult lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

"I'll dungeon master you"

"I'll deathmatch you"

That last one was probably used at some point in time though..

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I somehow never realized it was a shift from forums. I've used both terms interchangeably with a bias towards DM. TIL

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Same, but prefer PM. We both know what we mean :p

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Yup, and that's what matters

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

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