exchristian

if I am remembered fondly

The problem is that this doesn't matter relative to the looming deadline of the eventual, permanent nonexistence of everything—not just your own short life—I mean the entire universe and your memory keepers; what does it matter if one is remembered fondly for a brief few decades or even centuries or millennia versus timelessness? I don't think many people understand just how vast infinity really is. You can tell yourself that your life choices matter, but that's not the truth, given how everything goes to basically science's version of Sheol/the OT "grave." For them, there was no out; that was it.

It may sound cold, but what would it matter to research our ancestors' struggles, hopes, dreams, and experiences? Struggle itself will cease to matter—collectively for everyone/everything—as well as everything else we've mentioned. It would sure be nice, even great, if it mattered, but I can't see how any particular value can be objectively derived from anything given the vast entropy that awaits all things, including the permanent death of knowledge itself. Our own discussion here will crumble. It's maddening that nothing will be untouched; nay, even nothing less than being completely obliterated. Therefore, any "well-living" of one's life would simply be because one wants to do it, with no further basis other than just feeling good (from evolutionistic altruism or whatever provides the dopamine or serotonin, sure)—certainly not "morals," which technically don't exist and were just collectively agreed upon to sustain hive minds' survival. And while I'm certainly not gonna suddenly go immoral...

That severely bothers me.

I don’t need infinite cosmic importance to matter, and neither do you.

It's not about importance to other people or beings; it's just about our own continued experience of experience itself. If you won't be there, why does what anything you struggle for matter? If you cause someone more pain... they'll eventually just die anyway! If you fight to reduce waste and help other people reduce pain in their lives or others'... they'll all just die anyway! "But for the span of their lives, they'll have felt better/worse"—so what? There is no basis for any valuing of one way or another relative to the absolutely immense size of eternity that awaits after such a speck of < a century of some more/less suffering/enjoyment. Am I missing something here? Seriously, I hope I am, but this is all I can conclude.

I feel like the only consolation is that those in massive suffering (whether physical or otherwise) will eventually find "peace" through death, even though nothingness is technically not actual peace, either; the phrase, "lay to rest," seems to ultimately be still more anthropomorphizing and feel-good comfort, to me anyway, for basically anyone who isn't in the height of constant, unavoidable pain.

With that said (and I mentioned this in another comment elsewhere here), the ace in the hole that completely throws my argument for a loop is the potential development of anti-aging technology should we be able to get anything like it, thanks to all the billionaires striving for it these years. It really resonated with me when Seth McFarlane said in The Orville about whether one would choose to live forever or not: "I want to see what happens next." If we can actually achieve that, then there'd be a better argument... in my understanding, anyway.

Christianity teaches you the lie that to matter, you must have permanence

Not really; I just want permanence regardless, lol.