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Back when I was still swiping, I seem to have more younger men swipe on me rather than older or even equal age. Is there a reason why? Boys who knows unker a little, do you think my personality may throw off older men?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

During old days, older men woo younger because of looks. Those days women didn't work, only there for household, and family. Nowadays, younger men chase older or same. Older women too have own money. Supply and Demand. Household and family not only thing. COMPANIONSHIP key.

Imho. Younger women not as interesting, two-dimensional, lacking Life experience. A fly that lives for only 1 day.

Mind you. Beware the love scams at any rate ๐Ÿ•ต๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

aiyo so sad for younger women. I don't think they are two dimensional, rather I think they are very idealistic about how they should be treated. It's very much "I want equality, but in a relationship I am your queen" sorta thing. If you are not their first priority, means you don't love them to the ends of the earth. I mean, yeah somewhat true; I do feel like your relationship shouldn't be the most important thing where you drop everything for them. It's one of your priorities, but not the only one. I think that's the difference between a mature relo and a young one.