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[–] [email protected] 49 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

People in the emotional stage will not appreciate the question. It's best to presume they're in the "emotional stage" every time. Someone who wants solutions will let you know anyway soon. Someone emotional rarely has the rationality to explain this.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Luckily my wife has now acknowledged that my inner nerd/engineer will immediately jump to solutions and will preface the conversation with "i just need to vent" in those situations.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Can your wife teach this arcane magic to my wife?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

The one person you can change is yourself.* Why not try vent before solutions?

*(Kinda. You’re trying to change your wife and here I am encouraging you to try a new way.)

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago

Probably right, but boy for those of us that are very solution oriented and not great with emotions, it is hard to hold back. Personally, if I was the Schwarma destroyer, I would like a question like this to feel me out on, but I think you are right. It would likely piss most people off.

[–] thirteene 12 points 2 weeks ago

And anyone setting up the joke "sorry I falafel for you" is going to pretend they were in the emotional stage and then go look for new friends.