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I am a 23 year old female with a IQ of 76. Ask me anything

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Are you frequently dissatisfied by imagining things that should be possible but being unable to do them?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Yes absolutely. I really wanted to do game mods that one point however I'm not good at programming obviously.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

You shouldn’t let that limit yourself. Contrary to popular belief, the brain is much more fluid and adaptable than previously thought. IQ tests give a single number to represent something as complex as human intelligence, and while psychometrics can provide some kind of quantitative insight into how our brains process, organize, and distill information, it is by no means wholly representative of intelligence.

You have the capability to learn and grow. Maybe it takes a tad bit longer, but with determination and willpower (something not measured with IQ tests), you can learn just about anything.

I have MUCH more respect and appreciation for those who work hard to achieve their goals than I do for those who are naturally talented but stay within their comfort zones. If you challenge and push yourself, I think you’d be surprised with how far you can end up going 🙂

Edit: I should say, I’m sorry if you’ve heard this a million times. I’m sure it’s annoying when people just tell you “Oh all you have to do is try harder! Easy!” I’m not trying to suggest it’s easy. Or that IQ tests don’t mean anything. But if I could recommend one thing to do, it would be to look into recent developments on neuroscience of the flexibility and adaptability of the brain. It’s fairly recent research, but strongly suggests that the brain is much more dynamic and fluid than we previously thought (when IQ tests were created).

[–] SpacetimeMachine 5 points 5 days ago

So I'm not necessarily someone with a lower IQ ( I think) but I have been going to therapy to help with my autism and ADHD. One thing that looking back really set my life back was not trying because I thought I would already fail. Once I lost confidence in myself it was pretty much all downhill from there.

What I'm trying to say is how you label yourself (in this case "I have low IQ") might be limiting what you can achieve before you even try. Don't view yourself through that one outlook. Don't let it limit yourself. After I started doing poorly in school because of my ADHD I just pretty much gave up on trying a lot of things I wanted to try because it might be harder for me than the average person. You're still young enough that you can achieve a lot! Make sure you explore your interests and don't get discouraged from small failures!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

Me too. Thanks for answering. I imagine that imagining so many possibilities and desiring them and striving for them is a common human experience.