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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted, clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

The world is not binary like that. Your side is not all good and the other side is not all bad.

[–] Zacpod 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I didn't say they were "all bad." I said they lacked empathy and I wasn't interested in being friends with them.

Conservative and progressive brains are different.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/conservative-and-liberal-brains-might-have-some-real-differences/

And one of those differences is empathy. https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/18/1/nsad029/7175525

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

One side has empathy. The other does not.

You generalized as if everyone on the left has empathy and no one on the right does. That’s simply not true. Group differences like this are often larger within the group than between them. While it might be true that, on average, people on the right are less empathetic than those on the left, it’s neither fair nor accurate to imply that one side has empathy and the other doesn’t.

[–] Zacpod -1 points 2 months ago

Eh. Fits with what I see in politics, the folks voting for right winger, and my own experiences conversing with them IRL. I see no issue with making that assumption and then being pleasantly surprised the odd time it isn't true.

Maybe it's a North America thing, tho. It's quite possible that the euro flavor of right wing is a more empathetic group.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

One would need empathy to see it that way ;)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Empathy is something that can be learned like any ability, it isn't always a binary you have it or you don't.