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It worked for a friend of mine. They were friends, he kept trying to get her to date him and after a year of pestering she caved. They're engaged now.
not making any claims about your friend's situation, but i've seen this happen more than once also--pestering, caving, engagement-- and they ended very badly.
getting engaged or even married does not necessarily mean "happy together"
Yeah, fair enough for the general case. I do think their situation is a good one though.
You just got to wear them down enough, break their willpower. They can learn to love in time.