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Sure. I was looking for a local instance that would be less usdefaultism, understanding that I would probably subscribe to general communities. ๐คฃ๐
I couldn't find anything on join-lemmy that was helpful but happened on a comment by sometime trying me to go to the fediverse site for helpful stuff. I found an instance https://lemmy.podycust.co.uk/ and tried to join that. I recall that it went reasonably and I entered my email address.
Shortly after I found I couldn't log on. The page just gave the spinning-wait indicators. That instance was disappeared from join-lemmy and I had to go through the same process for another instance.
https://lemmy.tedomum.net/ was selected and I joined that. Shortly after that was declared verboten and removed from join-lemmy. I'm not picking these at random and with low user counts. I am directed.
Third time lucky. I found another one that's accepting logon for three days in a row.
I do accept that Lemmy is Alpha and things change but the Devs are systematically removing email addresses and other sources of help from the join-Lemmy . Unironically they are stating that the first point of help is a sub on lemmy which is no fcuking use if you can't log on and well used stable instances are being removed from the join-Lemmy listing because they are well used. Just look at the difflog on GitHub. People are trying to join these instances because they are going through the same pain that I am.
There's no real world WhatsApp or Telegram etc group published for normal people. Most people don't know matrix exists. I don't like WhatsApp or Telegram but that's the popular choice for groups. Asking for a published popular group resulted in me being told that we don't have time to help people full stop. I'm not suggesting that the Devs are on a published group for a moment, but that we give a place for users to help themselves.
Meanwhile a whale is backing Nostr. And the apps work.
I reiterate that I understand Lemmy is Alpha but going out of your way to piss off the users and 'not assisting' any self help is like inviting Lennart Pottering to tea.
Ouch. That sounds like a pain in the arse. I joined lemmy world several days ago without issue. I joined due to the population size. I have encountered where lemmy.world has been down, slow, and hacked, in the few days I've been participating. So that's not good and it lends credence to what you are experiencing.
I've been looking for a new instance myself due to the growing pains lemmy.world has experienced since the reddit exodus.
You are right, it makes no sense to not offer support outside of being logged into a lemmy instance. It reminds me of my internet ISP. They advertise if you need support, go to . Meanwhile I can't even get onto the internet. Makes no sense.
Anyway, good luck to you. Hope to continue to see you around even if it's on another instance.
Hey, sorry for the delay! Yes, stay in touch. Enjoyed the discourse!