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You are supposed to do deep research on the person you're commenting to....
I barely even read usernames, plus Voyager App doesn't show profile bios, so even if I wanted to check their profile I can't and I'm sure as fuck not using the mobile website to get the information.
Same. Voyager doesn't show it, I'll do my best, but I'm not going to feel bad when I miss
That's why I just stick with they/them, anyone who gets annoyed about me using that isn't worth the energy, it's an anonymous message board, I don't know you, that's my purse!
Dumbass here gets it!
Remember kids, moron is a genderless word that can be applied to anyone!
That's not an excuse nor justification for misgendering anyone, neutral pronouns exist, use them.
If you tell me I will use them, I'm not a mind reader, I'm a dumbass with an internet connection.
If you get upset by someone using non gender neutral pronouns in general speech I don't think you're old enough to be on the Internet, and if you are we need to raise the age of access.