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Why is online privacy so important? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Firstly, I'm not against privacy or anything, just ignorant. I do try to stay pretty private despite that.

I wanted to know what type of info (Corporations? Governments? Websites??) Typically get from you and how they use it and how that affects me.

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[–] thebestaquaman 41 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am/was in the same boat as you: For a long time, I just didn't care that I was giving away a bunch of information in return for convenience, and didn't get why people cared so much.

I don't really know what triggered it, but at some point I became painfully aware that the only goal these companies have is to squeeze every possible penny out of selling me. I started noticing that the stuff they ask you to confirm is 95% stuff they want because they can sell it, or use it to get you hooked to their service, and 5% (at best) stuff they need to make the service good for you.

This triggered a change in my perspective: Now it pretty much makes me sick to my stomach to think about all the companies that are drooling over me, trying to make a buck by getting me to click something I'm not actually interested in, or don't actually need.

These people have a vested interest in manipulating me, and by giving them my data, I'm giving them the tools to do it. I don't want to be manipulated or sold as a product: That's what made me start caring about protecting my data.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This is it for me too. I'm not going to allow companies to monetise me or my data any more than the absolute minimum I have to.

One thing I try hard at is making sure that I never have to see a single advert in my own home. I don't have TV, I don't watch any streaming services if they have ads, and I adblock everything. I don't care how good a product is, how cheap or free, if it has advertisements I'm out.

To me it's about having sufficient self-respect to not let companies live in my head rent-free.