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As an autistic person how do you stay motivated (more specifically doing long tasks)? (self.autism)
submitted 2 months ago by MrWafflesNBacon to c/autism
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Mostly asking for other people on the spectrum, but allistics are free to comment also.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am so happy to hear you have a friend who is willing and able to help you out!

Aaaand he cancelled. ᕕ(ᐛ)ᕗ As I said, everyone I know is going through some shit. I'm a bit disappointed but not mad. Or even surprised.

Wouldn't it be great if we could get some mental health professionals who actually trust that someone is accurately describing what they're dealing with and how? Like - you can throw neurotypical-friendly solutions at me all day but there just might be a reason they won't work the same as they have for someone else.

Some people are just in it for the money. Just like in the "real" world, if you don't fit inside the box, they don't care. You're not worth the effort. Some do it because they care. Which is good... to a point. Caring will drain someone, listening to people who are in pain all day, every day.

Some people are in it to learn, and to share that knowledge. These are the ones most likely to take what you say at face value... and then dig to get to the root of it. I'm lucky to have found one of these people as my therapist, and doubly lucky that he's part of the hiring process at the facility. He wants the culture to reflect his values. I just wish I could have found this support system sooner.

[–] JackiesFridge 2 points 2 months ago

Oh wow you struck gold with that therapist! We need WAY more of him, but you're right it's draining work. Like just hanging out with a good friend will wipe me out, but digging deep into the root of someone's pain, over and over, every day...ooof.

I'm sorry your friend cancelled. Hopefully he gets over this bump and you can reschedule.