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Mom didn't go to school (lemmy.wtf)

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[–] njm1314 32 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (15 children)

And this is exactly why homeschooling exists. For the most part of course. It's people who want a certain view of History taught and don't want to have to worry about pesky things like facts or history or books. That's why so much homeschooling is deeply Evangelical Christian, and somehow even the weirder branch of Evangelical Christians if that's a thing, also why so much of it has Nazi shit involved. Yeah if you've never looked it up there's a lot of Nazi propaganda in the homeschooling community. It's just great..

[+] [email protected] -12 points 4 months ago (10 children)

That's not really true with everyone. I know a fair number of home schooled people and there were taught better than the schools. When you're in school, you can only learn as fast as the slowest learning. The "smarter" kids are held back. When we were in lockdown from the pandemic, kids could learn at their own rate from the online classes, and half my sons class was done with the semesters curriculum before the first quarter was done. The teacher had to find more for them to do which resulted in half the class jumping a grade when everyone went back to school.

I would let me kid do online schooling in a heartbeat if I could, he'd be miles ahead compared to going to school.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Yeah, strong “No true Scotsman” energy here.

The vast majority of homeschooling parents are absolute weirdos who have no business teaching anyone, especially children.

[–] andxz 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I don't want to generalize, nor am I American, so this is probably irrelevant anyway, but as my wife is an experienced spec ed teacher and I myself have also worked in the educational system for most of my life I feel somewhat competent in giving some perspective.

Now, we do live in one of the Nordic countries, and I've lived in one of the others as well, and we were both raised bi-lingual (Swedish speaking Finns, to be exact). As my immune system is compromised due to a chronic sickness and I'm also an asthmatic, we decided to keep our son home for quite a while during Covid. My wife works with a relatively small group of pupils (~5) since she's a private teacher for children with some form of Autism so we didn't regard that as a really dangerous vector, as they were all masked up due to their own medical issues.

Anyhow, even with all our experience and know-how (and that's besides the social part he missed) it was a major undertaking to homeschool our boy even for a 6 month period, and he's a smart boy too. We made most of the material myself except for his school books, and damn if it wasn't close to a full time job. Ironically we all did get COVID (and I survived, to my surprise) about 2 weeks after he went back to school.

His handwriting had improved a lot though, and he were several chapters in front of the rest of his class in math. He's also almost a year before his peers in English, which means he speaks three languages almost fluently at 10 years old.