collapse of the old society

Apples to oranges, no? In many parts of the world gays are executed on sight, doesn't mean it's what the westerners are used to nor does it mean we should adopt it.

This is also massively overblown "oriental medicine" type rhetoric btw, not accusing you of it but traveling to places like Russia, China, Europe etc. it's easy to observe that living with one's parents is the norm only for the poorest of the poor, it's much less cultural and correlates much more with class (Marxist definition).