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I'm an officially diagnosed Autistic and a self diagnosed Narcissist. AMA (self.autism)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Persen to c/autism
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This was suggested to me by @[email protected].

  • I'm a late teen (17). I got an autism diagnosis (which still causes more problems, than good) when I was three years old.
  • You already know a lot about autism (since most of you are autistic), so you don't need any explanation (even if it's a spectrum).
  • Now let's explain why I think I'm a narcissist: When I entered high school a few years ago, I started feeling superior to my schoolmates. At first I felt, this was justified, as I have way better grades than my schoolmates (and had a way higher admission score (or whatever it's called) than others), but later I realized, it was unjustified, as even if I'm smarter, than everyone, I have other challenges (executive function, procrastination of anything related to communication). That wouldn't be anything weird, but even after that realization, I just can't grasp the fact my schoolmates aren't stupid and useless. AMA

PS:I know it's a way too long post and doesn't belong here, but it is what it is.

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[–] Persen 0 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Wow thanks. My mother often verbaly attacks me for not showing empathy (for example, when we were watching a shitty movie about a sociopath manipulating and murdering a family, I said I have no empathy for them, as they should have noticed the sighs and got rid of him while they had a chance).

  • Some of these actually describe me:

  • Sense of self-importance - I think, I should be considered above average in intelligence.

  • Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success  - When I describe myself, I make small changes to my behavior and things I say (probably just masking).

  • Entitled - If someone does something to me, I perceive unfair, I make sure they suffer.

  • Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain - only if linked to the last statement

  • Lack empathy - to people I hate or perceive bad.

  • Must be admired - My self esteem falls if nobody tells me i'm significantly above average in something.

  • Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them - I used to envy my classmate, who was described as a genius by the whole class. Later this fell apart as he stopped learning as much. Now, he is percieved as a unsympathetic, self centered person.