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Can we talk about porn on Lemmy? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Mostly as in....where is it?

I've found a few NSFW communities, but most of those seem to be mostly cheesecake shots of celebrities - yeah, they're NSFW as in I wouldn't want my boss to see me looking at them at work, and it would probably get HR all hot and bothered, but....it doesn't actually do that much for me?

Where's the equivalent of r/gonewild? As a reddit refugee, if we don't bring all the hot girls who show their boobs with us, the terrorists have won, frankly.

(yes, I know the pro move here would be to only use reddit for NSFW content because they can't monetize it....but come on, federated tits).

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Too much work! I'm not even blinking right now - just feed the porn straight into my brain, could you?

(Thank you, I guess I could've started there....but point stands. Reddit it feels like porn is like, right beneath the surface....Lemmy it feels like I have to go searching for it, and then make a real effort to find it. Maybe I was just on reddit too long - my porn alt had 10+ years)

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's mainly because you're on lemmy.ml. They defederated lemmynsfw and pornlemmy, which are the biggest nsfw instance and a fast-growing nsfw instance respectively. You need to join another instance that is fine with nsfw federation to see it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

and also my 'other' account, on a totally different instance, was also defederated from lemmynsfw and pornlemmy. The peculiarities of the lemmyverse/fediverse keep coming up in the strangest of ways - thank you!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Lemmy may have nsfw hidden by default for you in your settings