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Define pedos.
If both parties achieved mental and physical maturity then what's wrong.
Ask your grandmother at what she - or people her age - married at.
This is likely to get downvoted, I say this because mentioning downvotes in your posts/comments usually prevents them from being downvoted (a little psychological thing probably)
I remember SouthPark doing an episode about that exact viewpoint
Then let's talk facts and logic, why is an older person marrying a younger person bad? because you're an educated Atheist/Agnostic (I guess), you must've questioned what you were taught at childhood, unlike those brainwashed and spoon fed Christians.
"Minimum age of marriage", who came up with concept? it surely isn't common sense since it only appeared less than a century ago, so what is it? Some may say that young marriage is a mere relic of the ancients, a result of their underdeveloped logic and science, and that our advanced logic is better and is infallible.
But wait, your people, just mere a century ago saw people 2 centuries a ago the exact same way, and so did those before them, so using our logic, we can deduct that our logic is illogical.
How about statistical data we can speculate, a mere century ago, how did the world look like? there was certainly very little employees, even Christians believed in their book, Javascript did not exist (alhamdulillah), young people were treated as adults, and people older than Israel who to this day live under bombing by your morally superior society were being born; How does something like the depression rate among their youth compare to today? It is reportedly much lower, so how did your generation fail? Surely with all that development of medicine and the like, your people should "logically" be much happier. Are you really strictly superior to the ancients?
"But statistics back then were biased and limited", I see your point, unlike the "infallible" statistics of today, those statistics were surely awful, so let's move to broader ideas.
At childhood, you were spoon fed many ideas, like "Slavery is unacceptable", "The old marrying the young is awful", and "Humans evolved from monkeys". By using the fact that our logic is illogical, we can conclude that these aren't concrete facts. How is slavery involved with almost every product in the average American household? how did the ancients grow up to be healthy adults? Again, ask your grandmother. How is there not, to this day, concrete evidence of humans evolving from anything but slightly taller humans?
How is slavery unacceptable in your eyes, yet you can't live without it? Is the average McDonalds worker treated better that how Islam treats slaves?
How did the ancients grow up to be healthy individuals? Is insisting that you're much better than the ancients truly your way of avoiding depression?
Why is anything that goes against the theory of someone named Darwin, of whose book you know nothing, and whose theory's shortcomings you are ignoring, and whose teachings you were fed in school, and whose ways you never questioned, mere ancient fables?
But there stands, the teachings of Islam, Allah's divine revelation to us, it never failed, for 14 centuries it stood unchanged, yet who reads it could never tell, that this book wasn't written by a scholar of today, how could it so accurately describe today? how did our caliphate, only a mere century from today, stand strong? How didn't we truly fail, until we forgot the words and called it a day?
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I got a little peotic at the end.
You guys just look at Christians and decide that religion is dumb.
I thought of finishing with some miracles like the 360 joints, the beating of alcoholics and adulterers, and camel milk+urine, but the ~~article~~ ~~south_park_remark~~ reply got too long.
I realize these miracles can be individually dismissed, it is not their individual traits that will persuade, it is their collected wight. It is the fact that the prophet, peace be upon him, never claimed anything that is wrong, unlike scientists of a mere decade ago, and that his medicines did nothing but heal, unlike scientists of a mere decade ago.
I look at religion and decided it's silly...wish you'd stop putting words in my mouth. And you can stop defending slavery/pedophilia or whatever, I'm not having that convo with you troll
Here's the problem with English: I can not use the word "you", and still have people know whether I am talking to them, or to people like them in general. Some of my "you"s were plural, some were singular. I need some way of coping with this language.
You replied to only 1 paragraph of mine, and decided I am a troll just for ~~suggesting~~ pushing that slavery/"pedophilia" might not be bad, unlike what you were taught.
Here's an article I remembered, it's written by a Christian:
Edit: no, actually, English isn't the problem, since I appended "guys" to my statement about looking at religion and deciding it's silly, you should know that I wasn't talking about you personally.
I think the biggest flaw is assuming you're among the atheist/agnostic crowd, but even then, I appended that claim with "(I guess)" to indicate that I am indeed putting words in someone's mouth. Maybe you're among the Christian crowd, or maybe you're a... ~~Zionist~~ Jew? Hindu?
For any passing people, the original reply isn't edited, so I am safe from that side of accusations.
I see, English isn't your first language. You made (and continue to make) false assumptions. The media has had no influence on my viewpoints on religion (Christianity in particular), my personal experiences are more than sufficient. My first comment was based on Mohammeds youngest wife and how it's accepted/ignored by Muslims. We have (somewhat?) similar action in the US, there was a republican GOP member in New Hampshire that was pushing to keep legal marriage set at 16 rather than 18, described the 16 year-olds as "ripe"...super creepy
I am pretty sure he's an awful person just because he's an American politician.
But you're missing the point though, you still think of young marriage as an absolutely-no-questions-asked obscene thing, which is understandable, seeing that most western teenagers are brainwashed into thinking they're kids, and are therefore immature and aren't ready for marriage. (Which creates some other problems because that's the natural age for marriage)
Where I live, we have 16-year-old men marrying 14-year-old women, and they have a child a year or two later, and they're really fine, except for maybe being less educated that they could have otherwise been. Speed of maturity actually depends mainly on two factors: difficulty of life (maturity of the mind and body), and heat of the climate (sexual maturity), and considering how high both were at the time of prophet PbUH, marrying at 9 is absolutely normal.
In fact, I am sure there are many marriage-ready 9-year-old women at places like Uganda and the poor African nations.
Actually, the idea of setting a minimum age only came to us with the french when they decided to colonize us, so of course we won't look positively at ideas brought by people who came to rape and pillage, and it still doesn't seem so bright considering they're still pillaging us implicitly through corrupt political affairs.
Isn't it weird that some resource-rich nations are dead-poor, while something like London can look like science fiction, and that a system as inefficient as democracy continues to function, and that every citizen somehow has human rights, and that the electricity doesn't get cut daily. To this day I have a hard time believing that flat asphalt roads exist, and that driving on them doesn't feel like riding a roller coaster of some sort; NO IT MUST BE FICTION, I WON'T BELIEVE IT TILL I SEE IT WITH MY OWN EYES!!!
Note to Americans: you guys might say: "Oh, but our medical system is a scam and colleges cause students to drown in debt because we normalized the disgusting act of usury!", it's just because your government's is spending a third-of-the-world's-military-budget worth of money on bombing Iraq and Yemen and Palestine and Cuba and Afghanistan and some other things in the name of "War On Terrorism" against those they pillaged. (No wait they made it back when they built a dock in Gaza to steal all their oil, so your government actually has no excuse, it must be corruption/falling into usury)
On the topic of American wastage, I read an article long ago where Americans were concerned that a 2000$ houthi drone was usually dealt with using a 2m$ missile, so the Pentagon spokesman or something replied with what was essentially: "Don't worry, Americans! the houthi's "terrorism" is already causing much more economic harm, so that's a negligible efficiency loss", like, how is telling people that the situation is much worse than they imagine supposed to calm them down?
Edit: I forgot Russia, almost the only nation America has any right to actually fight.
Go join NAMBLA, they'd love to hear your opinion regarding this. I don't. Good day.
It's always funny when 2 people politely agree that they more or less hate each other. Good day.
NAMBLA people just seem like less disgusting Americans. Uninterested!