Kayday

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[–] Kayday 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

“We know this won’t make some of you happy to hear,” wrote the band’s lead singer Victor Willis, “however we believe that music is to be performed without regard to politics. Our song ‘Y.M.C.A.’ is a global anthem that hopefully helps bring the country together after a tumultuous and divided campaign where our preferred candidate lost.”

[–] Kayday 6 points 3 days ago
[–] Kayday 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Okay, I was a child of 12 or so at my local gym with a friend. We were talking and some old guy we didn't know came up and asked us this. We stared at him, dumbfounded for a few moments before he said, "it has no legs."
He walked away and I never saw him again.

[–] Kayday 1 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Didn't one of the Mandalorian seasons offer a pseudo explanation?

[–] Kayday 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In 2023, Hondurans sent $8.97b back to their country from their jobs in the US. That same year, the country's GDP was $34.40b.
Doesn't seem very crazy to want to protect 26% of your country's income.

[–] Kayday 40 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Commenting to appease my anxiety, ignore me if I bother you.

Doctors generally recommend abstaining from sex for 6 weeks after giving birth.

[–] Kayday 7 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I am under 40, but had "two spaces after a period," drilled into me as a kid. I only broke the habit in the last year, and it still feels weird every time I use just one.

[–] Kayday 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Chickpeas, mushrooms, tomato paste, taco seasonings, fat of your choice (butter if you aren't vegan)

Bake the chickpeas and then smash them, mince the mushrooms. Bring together and sautee in olive oil with tomato paste, seasonings, incorporating your fat. Add salt to taste.

Makes a fantastic taco filling. Garnish with whatever you like.

[–] Kayday 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] Kayday 7 points 2 weeks ago

I interact differently even within my friends of the same gender. I will match the energy of the person I am talking to. Sally may be bubbly and excited, and I will to bring the same enthusiasm. Wendy is much quieter, and we talk slower and about different things.

Sally and Wendy are going to have a lot in common compared to Tom and Kenny thanks to social conditioning. Some people will just see the similarities and say, "boy friends act this way, girl friends act this way."

Fundamentally, there isn't a reason I need to treat Sally or Wendy differently than each other or to Tom and Kenny, but it works out that way a lot of times.

[–] Kayday 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I understand your sentiment. Can I ask you to consider a scenario?

Imagine a company needs to hire a new employee. They have 9 white men, and need a 10th person. Whoever is hiring may not think they are prejudiced, but they need to consider how the new hire will fit in with the existing team.
They may be worried about how hiring a qualified woman will upset the dynamic. A qualified Hispanic with an accent may be overlooked if the hiring manager is concerned about their English skills. Any number of reasons that may not even be conscious, but influence the decision to hire another white man.

Do you think it is possible for DEI practices to ensure diverse and qualified candidates? Why does hiring a non-white have to mean they are less qualified? If we instead start with the assumption that qualified candidates exist from many backgrounds, hiring them in proportion to their representation in the population doesn't seem like a crazy idea.

[–] Kayday 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I respect drag's pronouns. Correct me if I'm wrong, but referring to drag with "they" is not right?

They wouldn't say:
I like cheese.

They would say:
Drag likes cheese.

Not trying to pull a gotcha or anything, it just confuses me because I keep seeing comments defending drag's pronouns while also using they/them.

 

I primarily use my pc for gaming, and want to avoid upgrading to Windows 11. Beginning the journey of looking into alternatives.

I am ignorant, trying to be less so. I have a hard time understanding what exactly makes a game not work just because of OS.

 

Not my video, but I just encountered Grincher myself.

 

So many years I convinced myself that I didn't have it bad enough to transition. I wasn't constantly depressed, only sometimes. Dysphoria didn't affect me daily, just weekly...

Never mind the fact that any time I embraced who I was it made me so happy, or that being seen by others the way I wanted felt more real than any other recognition I'd received before. No, I didn't suffer enough, so I didn't deserve to rock the boat with my happiness.

Folks, as cliche as it is, we aren't here forever. Life is too short to waste it lying to yourself and everyone around you.

 

Darkest Dungeon studio joins Dead by Daylight developer.

 
  • Quentin player is my 4th hook
  • I'm nearby when he gets unhooked, try to M1 the savior
  • Quentin body-blocks
  • Savior got away, Quentin still nearby after getting hit
  • Chase Quentin, got my 5th hook, his 2nd
  • Ended up getting a 3k, Quentin escapes
  • Post game chat Quentin is pissed that I tunneled him.
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submitted 7 months ago by Kayday to c/pathfinder2e
 

Hello, title. I have been playing pf2e coming on 2 years now. Unfortunately, I have never enjoyed character creation or progression in this system. I like playing with my group, but would rather never again make a decision when it comes to character options.

I am surprised because it seems like there are very few written resources or videos which just make a build with feats/spells chosen, retraining recommendations by level, etc. Any recommendations?

 

By Alyssavt

 

[Requesting engagement from trans-feminine people on HRT]

I don't yet know when I will begin hormone replacement therapy, but the anticipation leaves me prone to developing expectations I worry are unrealistic.

Not sure how best to explain. My emotions, and sometimes my expression of those emotions, will feel masculine when heightened. Feeling intensely happy or angry about something even unrelated to my identity, those feelings give me dysphoria because of how masculine they seem. It's not that being happy or angry is inherently masculine, of course. The dysphoria comes from the emotion's manifestation seeming masculine.

I don't know if this makes sense, but has anyone experienced something similar and/or seen changes to these sorts of things?

 

Join me on the path to Twilightenment.

 

Back on February 3rd, I came out to my wife. TLDR, she is amazing and I love her.

We had just settled in with some cocoa for the night after getting the kiddo to sleep. We both knew yo get comfy, since we would be there a while. I told her very directly that I am a transgender woman, and shared some of how that has been exciting, terrifying, and depressing at times, still being in the closet.

There were some tears, which she later told me were on my behalf because she had no idea how I had been hurting. She has persistently reminded me through gestures and words that she loves me, not just as a man she married 6 years ago, but as the person she has come to know.

We are still in the process of talking through what next steps look like, but she has been incredibly open to change and has wanted to understand how I see myself and the world.

She has always been a huge Harry Potter fan. This woman even asked me if it was still okay for her to like Harry Potter. She was ready to leave it behind for me. (Personally, consuming HP media doesn't bother me. Conversation for another time, I'm sure some here would disagree with me)

I am so thankful for her. I also want to thank this community for encouraging me to get to this point. You girls rock ❤️

 

Link to my first post. When we were sharing our new year's resolutions with each other earlier this month, I told her I want to he more true to myself, and more honest with her. I told her she deserves that, and that I love her.

We have talked about having "a conversation" soon. For us, we understand this to mean at least 2-3 hours where we sit down intending to talk without being interrupted. Time has continued to get away from us as we are settling into being parents as well with a 2 month old.

We have each made mentions of, "the conversation", and how we haven't forgotten, just haven't had the right moment yet.

Girls, I am just so proud of myself for taking this step. Even though nothing has really happened yet, it feels like more has happened in the last month than in my entire life.

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