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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Sharp-Alarm-9612 on 2023-06-26 05:58:02+00:00.
I20m have been with my gf20 for almost 5 months. On 4th of July I’m suppose to meet her family, and they are all Hispanics. Her grandparents speaks barely any English, some of her cousins speak none. I began looking up and practicing learning sentences in Spanish so I’d be able to atleast try to talk to her family. I did it out of my desire bc I am hopeful this relationship is going to be serious, and this is a big step for us. When my gf found out I was trying to learn, she told me that was rude of me to assume she’d want me too, and that I sound like a white boy mocking them. I told her it was hard for me, and I was still practicing and she told me I was being racist. She was pretty upset about it, and said if I was going to treat them like a project not to come at all. I was honestly doing it for me, I wanted to be able to talk to my gf family, and I honestly thought she’d be excited too. Aita?