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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/apartfromtheworld on 2023-06-24 20:52:03+00:00.
I’m 16 male and a hooper I play basketball and like fashion. I get called gay for rolling up my basketball shorts because they were long as hell or I get called gay for my hygiene I take care of my skin, hair, and body because I love myself and I love how I feel when I’m clean. For my last non school game we had to wear suits to the gym and back I had a nice navy-blue suit and some stud earrings, again I love being fresh I can't help it.
My family came, and her boyfriend said I looked like one of the kids a church guy likes. I ignored it because he has nothing going for himself. again. He kept talking about how I looked “sassy” because I kept fixing my watch or whenever I got up I brush my pants. Boom I get into the locker room change come out, and my shorts are big as shit so I start rolling them up and getting ready. I saw my dad and her boyfriend laughing at me. I'm not even the sensitive type, but it did low key hurt my feelings to see my dad making fun of me but whatever. Games over I got all changed we went out for dinner, as we walk back to the car, he asked me do I like fucking men I turned around and I told him he’s so worried about the next man. Is he sure he’s not the gay one.
And that he’s always worried about me and how I carry myself as a man. He should take lessons from me on being clean, and he always smells like he just took a shit. My sister tried to calm it down, but I told her she lowered her standards for somebody who fucking stinks and can’t keep a job. I might be the asshole for saying it in front of my ten-year-old nephew, but I’ve held all that shit in for years. AITA?