Here's the thing, folks: even Lincoln had doubts about manifest destiny and the governing challenges it would present.
What if, hear me out, America is too vast and different to ever be cohesive? What if the best path to success is avoiding shitty cultures that devalue the things you value?
Why are we so bent on homogeneous outcomes? I found my oasis, and I'm building something that will live longer than me. What about you? Is your city/state representative of your values? If not, what's your migration plan? You have one, right?