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What do you people recommend for a good grown up romance anime that doesn't make you feel like crap? (lemmings.world)

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Most of the romance anime I've seen are based on a high school setting or something similar.

They were good and all but all have this typical format with the usual shenanigans like Love triangle, beach and fireworks festival episodes, useless love interests that have a shelf life of a hamburger... Etc.

And the memorable ones have me feeling nostalgia for memories I've never even had. And in some cases its almost like waking up after a fever dream but with chest pain.

P.S - From the top of my head- the only grown up romance setting I can think of is Wotakoi. Maybe it's time I venture more into K-dramas for the romance, I remember seeing one named "Twentyfive twentyone" which was absolutely amazing.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Re: Life
Spice and Wolf
Gosick
Tsuki ga Kirei
Seishun Buta Yarou wa Bunny Girl Senpai no Yume wo Minai
Sakura-sou no Pet na Kanojo
High Score Girl
Kaichou wa Maid-sama!
Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu
Kimi no Na wa

Re: Life and Spice and Wolf are my top recommendations the other are less of what I think your looking for but still want to mention them since I felt they did something different to warrant them being on this list.

I would like to put some more experimental titles, but I'll abstain for now.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

So many good ones here. I've watched a few from the ones you mentioned. All of them I pretty much enjoyed a ton.

Re Life
Bunny girl senpai
Sakura-sou no pet na Kanojo
Boku no kokoro no yabai yatsu
Kimi no nawa

Re life, kmi no nawa and bunny girl senapi gave me depression for a short while back in the day. Boko no Kokoro no yabai yatsu was probably one of the better ones to come out in recent times.

I also think I watched the first 2 episodes of Kaicho wa Maid Sama a long time ago... I almost forgot it existed.

Hiscore girl, tsuki ga kirei and Spice & wolf are in my never ending watch list, thanks for reminding me again. As for gosik, it's my first time hearing about it... Will check it out tho.

Also please go ahead and comment the experimental ones you mentioned, I think I'll find something interesting

Also my apologies for not mentioning the ones I already watched in my post.

[–] elekitty 6 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

Plastic Memories is a personal favourite.

It's a work/office setting, so "grown up"
It explores some sci-fi, human condition themes and as the name suggests, about "memories" which funny you should mention about nostalgia etc.
I thought it was a real tearjerker (or maybe I'm a softie)
It's released 2015, so you might find it dated?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Oh nice. Sounds like it's the kind of show I'm looking for. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Oregairu could be something you could like. While it's setting is typical, it is much more atypical in how it deals with the romance.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Oregairu was really well executed. I really liked it. I kinda feel bad for the second girl with the pink hair ( I think her name was Yuigahama? ).

Oh man I feel old now.... Its been what? 4 or 5 years since it got it's final season anime adaptation huh.. I was watching it while it was still airing.

On a completely unrelated note, I think it was last year when I watched an anime called "The terrors in my heart" it was one of the memorable ones I've seen as of late. I just remembered it when you mentioned Oregairu for some reason.

[–] ScoopMcPoops 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

You might like Servant x Service, it's not explicitly a romance anime, more of a comedy but it has some romance sprinkled in from what I remember. It focuses on a a few employees working for the local government at a DMV style office where they deal with customers all day. Light hearted and definitely relatable if you've ever worked a service job.

Golden Time was pretty good when I saw it 12 years ago. It's a college setting so a lot of high school tropes are gone and the characters act more like young adults. I wouldn't say you need to watch it, but it's not bad.

Ore Monogatari or "My Love Story" is a favorite for me and my partner. It is a high school setting, but the characters and the pacing make it worth it. If you give it a shot just make it to episode 3 before writing it off.

You probably wouldn't like Toradora but it's highly regarded. High school setting again with a lot of clichés, but the clichés are used really well, and make up for the fact that you've probably already seen the stereotypes play out before.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

From the ones you've mentioned, I've watched Golden time. It was pretty good.

Ore monogatati and Torodora were in my watchlist for a long time, I almost forgot about them until I read your comment.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Other than Wotakoi, the only ones I can think of, and are worthwhile imo, are 'Science Fell In Love, So I Tried To Prove It', 'Astro Note' and 'Recovery Of An MMO Junkie' though the latter 2 aren't really full on romances.

I can think of a few manga though, if that's okay with you:

Manga by Yamada Kintetsu (Sweat and Soap, Telework Yotabanashi, Kasane to Subaru)
More Than Lovers, Less Than Friends
She Loves To Cook, She Loves To Eat
I Have A Crush At Work (currently also being adapted into an anime, but only 1 ep is out, so...)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

Hey thanks for all these suggestions. I'll check out all of them. I'll add those manga to my reading list.

[–] mrfriki 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

The Garden of Words. It a a short movie but, as far as anime goes it is what best fits your description.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Its a Makoto Shinkai movie right? I've seen it a few years ago, I liked it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Watch Itazura na Kiss

And Strawberry Panic, which has a more mature story (but still plays in highschool)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

I've not heard about both of them before. I'll check these out. Thanks

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

[off topic]

The Thin Man movies. Classic Hollywood B+W with a pair of adults having a great time solving a murder mystery.

[–] baccano 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Nick and Nora Charles are mine and my wife's relationship goals.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago

May I suggest more stable and mature role models.

Morticia and Gomez.