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Is anyone else enjoying the slower pace of content? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I had been feeling a bit drawn in to reddit for the past few months before the divorce. I feel like the slower pace at which content comes out on Lemmy is good for me in that way. I can't just scroll and scroll and scroll my entire day away.

Does anyone else feel similar?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes. Truthfully for the last 2-3 years I have been dismayed with the direction social media in general were going, not only Reddit. Here were the 3 major issues I had: 1- lower quality of content & the volume of bad content drowning out the good, 2- the corruption of the companies themselves, and 3- the toxic social environment with nasty behavior becoming the norm. I think that fragmenting the web into smaller and more distributed communities, with a slower pace, will probably be a good thing at this point in time.

PS I'm happy to admit the web has always had a dark side, but it had gotten noticeably much worse in recent years.

[–] rookie 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

3 is the biggest thing about pivoting more towards Lemmy / traditional forums for me. It's been really nice feeling like I'm not drowning in a sea of trite idiocy and unempathetic rage every time I open a comment section. It's genuinely refreshing to feel like I'm actually engaging with normal people again.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I had to take a break from Instagram because of this. I used to enjoy scrolling through the reels and reading the comments. Sometimes there'd be some really funny chains, but lately they just got to be so rude and negative. I'd spend hours throughout the week and at the end of it just feel sad and empty. Lemmy's been a nice change because it's still small and feels more positive. I'm hoping that as Lemmy grows it doesn't lose that.