Menopause
'Menopause isn't really that bad'...said no woman ever.
For those who are approaching or experiencing 'the change' (think reverse puberty), a time where hormone levels decline either through the aging process or by medical/surgical means.
Menopause and Perimenopause (the transitional time before Menopause) are unique to every person, and while there's no one-size fits all, we support each other on this roller coaster ride of wacked out hormones, absurd mood swings and random sweaty hot flashes.
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I’m not sure I knew the first year or so myself. After not feeling like myself for a few years, the hair falling out… sex drive bottomed out overnight. seemed like I went through 3 years of a spiral before getting a name to it. Started when I was 41-42? My gyn thought it was too early. She was wrong. I’m 48 now and my current gyn thinks I’m “firing blanks” now.
Does "firing blanks" mean you still have your period but don't ovulate?
I never understood what happens to the eggs - we get them all at once (whenever they arrive - puberty? birth?) but surely we don't have as many periods and pregnancies as we have eggs? What happens to the rest of them, I wonder?
Yes about the firing blanks. That’s what my gyno thinks. He said my hormone levels are so low he doesn’t know why I still bleed.