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Would a federated dating site work well? What would it look like? (startrek.website)
submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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Basically title, every bit of online dating nowadays is either Match or Meta, and we're all about breaking corporate chains right?

So these are the thoughts I had:

  1. Matches based on simple user selection: age range, lifestyle, hobbies etc. None of that dumb algorithm stuff that makes you reset your profile every month.

  2. ActivityPub protocol so that anyone can run their own instance, but can also be blocked if anything heinous happens.

  3. E2EE for messaging (and anything else if it's possible).

  4. Someone wrote an open-source anti-CSAM script for Lemmy recently, I hope we could adapt that to our use.

  5. Just, like, everyone have a good time on this app, we're here for love lol

I am not a coder, so I would have no idea how to do this, but I wonder about the interest in such a creation. Maybe some of you out there could make something I could use to get a date (pls).

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[โ€“] [email protected] 126 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

ActivityPub protocol so that anyone can run their own instance, but can also be blocked if anything heinous happens.

The overlap between the users who will run their own instance and the users you want for a dating app is the empty set.

(Speaking as someone that runs a personal Lemmy instance here)

[โ€“] NorthWestWind 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll bring you a grass box

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Is that some kind of advanced seed box? At least that'll help keep my torrent ratios up!