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How does the great void of death not disturb you? (programming.dev)

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Or does it?

I know we were once nothing, but it is still terrifying and depressing to me to think about returning to this. In fact, as of late, I've been unable to not think about it: the loss of all experience and all memories of everything, forever. All the good times we had, and will have, with anyone or anything ever will totally annihilate into nothingness. All our efforts will amount to nothing because the thoughtless void is ultimately what awaits everything in the end.

The only argument against this would have to be supernatural, like another cause of the Big Bang or somehow proof of reincarnation, but if my consciousness won't exist for me to experience it, then what does it matter either way?

There is no comfort in Hell, either. The anvil of death weighing down, infinitely, on all values and passions is becoming unbearable for me, so I could really use any potentially helpful thoughts about this matter.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

As someone who is very depressed, the idea of heaven and hell kind of disturb me. I'm so very, very tired, and I just want it all to stop. I want to stop experiencing, I want to stop doing, it doesn't matter how nice. Suicide is so appealing because I could just turn it all off.

I talk about this because I think an eternity in conventional heaven would eventually depress you. I think that faced with eternity, true infinity, eventually you'll have wringed out every last drop of happiness you can from existence and you'd long for rest just as much as I do.

Sorry, I want to be comforting to you and to me this is but I doubt it is to you. I'll leave you with this thought--because I don't believe there's an afterlife punishment or reward, it makes being the best person I can be all the more important. My actions are driven from me wanting the world to be a better place, not from me trying to earn a reward.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Oh, I'd already long shut out the concepts of H&H from my expectations, and I was previously Protestant and did not derive faith from works so I wasn't/haven't been doing good deeds for the sake of a personal reward anyway. That's why this:

because I don't believe there's an afterlife punishment or reward, it makes being the best person I can be all the more important.

... seems contradictory because the ultimate death of everything seems to reduce the importance of anything we do, which is what bugs me.

Anyway, my perspective doesn't really apply to people whose life situations have involved more suffering than enjoyment, like it sounds yours unfortunately has; I rather generally like my current life situation. I hope things improve for you, given how this seems like it's all we've got.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Maybe a simpler way to put it

You find a lost crying child in a mall. Do you help them find their parents, do you ignore them, or do you kick them over? In 100 years, it won't matter. No one's going to punish you for ignoring them. But, the choice you make matters a lot to the kid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

It's interesting, because I see it as like

The world shapes us heavily, and we shape the world slightly. If I do my best to be kind and helpful, at least a very small amount of the time, those actions will lead to someone else doing the same. My individual actions might have a small impact relative to the world, but I'll leave it a little bit better than I found it. Or at least, a little bit better than if I hadn't existed at all.

To my mind, this is different than a legacy. No one, not even me, will ever truly know the effect I've had on the world. My actions aren't going down in history books. No one will remember me in 50 years. However, it doesn't matter. My positive effect on the world, however small, remains.