Follow your dreams
this post was submitted on 27 Nov 2024
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Why is this bad? If people said, "Follow your dreams and they'll always come true," I'd disagree with that. But it doesn't hurt to have goals and work towards them.
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Obligatory: "YOLO", it is true we only live once -- so make it count.
"Big boys/girls don't cry"
This is some archaic-level advice similar to "pull up your bootstraps" that most people may have these already ingrained as part of growing up. It is fine to cry and show others [you trust] your feelings, no matter how old you are. More importantly, the better advice is to "take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being" and "be kind to yourself".
Quitting a job cold is one of the dumbest things you can do when you do not have any safety nets.
I quit work at 35 and now 58. My only regret in life is not quitting earlier. I get mo pensions or welfare or inheritance, I'm just mindful of spending and ever since I was 19 I invested small amounts of surplus income in stocks and shares that ballooned over the decades to large amounts.
Frugality includes all the other virtues.” – Cicero
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if it moves, bet on it. if it doesnt, eat it.
You should share everything with your SO. No. Don't share finances..
Why not? Having two paycheck going into one place seems like it would make things easier, since you’d only have to deal with one set of accounts. And if something happens to your SO, you already have access to the finances and don’t have to worry about getting access while dealing with whatever happened
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Totally disagree, however it does depend on what stage of life you're on. Straight out of college, sure, married at 50, I would say "no".
I've been married almost 25 years and we've been sharing finances since before we were married, but we both started with nothing, and we both had college degrees and equal paying jobs out of college, so there was no real disparity of finances.