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Some things that make it very annoying to me:

  • She complains whenever she can't find certain movies
  • She usually searches using the complete video title in the search bar, it's usually something like: Movie name - Complete Movie - Dubbed - Pirate Site or Uploader - Genre
    • She has a list of saved movie/video titles in a .docx file, where she also writes whether she liked the movie or not. Whenever a YT search shows something she thinks she'll be interested, she copies the title to the doc.
    • Will usually use that same search on Netflix, or continue typing and adding more despite no search results showing already.
  • Complains about video/audio quality
  • Complains when there's no dubbed version
  • Complains when the "movie" is just a trailer repeating for 1 hour
  • Seems to willfully ignore my explanations to why searching for and watching full movies on YT sucks (it's pirate content on a platform that doesn't allow piracy)
  • Ignores some ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ alternatives I've set up, because "there's nothing interesting there"
  • "Forgets" anything I teach her about searching and search terms in 5 minutes

To be fair, most of the movies she "wants" to watch aren't available on any streaming services. Feels like I'm dealing with the world's worst pirate.

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[โ€“] Viking_Hippie 186 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Have you tried turning her off and on again?

[โ€“] [email protected] 96 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is definitely troubleshooting tip #1 but in this specific case I will advise against turning your mom on!

[โ€“] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oedipus has entered the chat

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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe safer to just unplig and plug back in.. I guess

[โ€“] kautau 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I also would advise against plugging your mom

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

The best reply tree of this thread ๐Ÿ˜†

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[โ€“] Caketaco 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Try breaking both of your arms, Iโ€™ve heard that works.

[โ€“] WindInTrees 16 points 1 year ago

Oh no, is this phrase going to follow us here from reddit?

[โ€“] gravistar 5 points 1 year ago

God damnit...

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[โ€“] justlookingfordragon 104 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope this doesn't come across as rude, but as someone who has an aunt that behaves VERY similar, I can only say that some people do not want solutions - they want to be mad about something and others to agree with them. Finding easy ways to remove the problem instead of being allowed to complain about it is the opposite of what they expect to achieve.

[โ€“] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not rude at all, and not the first time someone said something along those lines about my mom. I've heard the same from other relatives.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Ironically, you came here instead of asklemmy to complain about your mom.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Not looking for a solution, just complaining

[โ€“] [email protected] 84 points 1 year ago

Not interested in learning

Complains constantly

Wants things for free

Doesn't deserve your help in this area.

[โ€“] [email protected] 59 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Have you tried getting a better mom?

[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lol, this is such an capitalistic free market response ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] Jtee 7 points 1 year ago

OPs mom was recalled he's just too lazy to being her back in

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Funny enough, there's a movie called Trading Mom about that, and it's actually free on YouTube

https://youtu.be/J-3-jCkROJQ

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Here is an alternative Piped link(s): https://piped.video/J-3-jCkROJQ

https://piped.video/J-3-jCkROJQ

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

I'm open-source, check me out at GitHub.

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[โ€“] thessnake03 45 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Have you tried setting up plex and then just putting in her requests?

Sounds frustrating to deal with

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

That would also be my go-to solution, except she wants hundreds of movies (in which case Plex also makes sense, but more for her than for OP).

[โ€“] grue 9 points 1 year ago

~~plex~~

Jellyfin

[โ€“] Countess425 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My friend's husband does this; he runs a plex server for their family, parents/in-laws, and a brother I think. As the nephew got older he started sending in his requests, too. He also set up an email address just for movie requests and wrote a script to crawl the email inbox and automatically download the top search result. It ended up requiring very little input on his end.

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[โ€“] PM_ME_FLUFFY_SHIBES 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

So she's like my mom who writes complete question phrases on Google and is pissed off that THE google doesn't know the answer?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

She'll love Google's AI then. Or hate it with a passion. It's sometimes very useful or more dumb then the actual search results.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Looks like it, my brother from the same yet another mother

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You wouldn't download a Mom.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I would also download this guys mom

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

You don't have enough bandwidth

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[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

how is this your problem?

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Choosing beggar pirate that's also your mom? Oh brother, I do not envy you

[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I would probably try setting up a custom browser, either chrome or Firefox, whichever she doesn't use already, set up ublock, and set the homepage to a pirate streaming site. I use bflix.gg, which (usually) has subtitles of all languages for most stuff, but if she's not English speaking there might be better options.

Then just tell her that browser is youtube for movies. It should be easy enough for her to use and there's only one step to remember, open the new browser. You could even name the shortcut youtube movies or something.

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[โ€“] Laticauda 14 points 1 year ago

Maybe you could set her up a plex library or something like that?

[โ€“] JonVonBasslake 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So teach her how to better pirate, don't just plop it in front of her. Leave her an instructional document.

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I've taught her the same things several times over. I'm not joking or using hyperbole. I've had her write down instructions herself about some things, like how to take screenshots and save images (she wrote that down three times, because she threw away the first 2 notebooks) - despite this, she still copies the image from Paint to Word in order to save it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Feels like I'm dealing with the world's worst pirate.

https://quoters.info/files/quote-pictures/8562-piraty-karibskogo-morya-proklyatie-chernoi-zhemchuzhiny-pirates-of-the-caribbean-the-curse-of-the-black-pearl.jpg

It is normal to get frustrated by technology you don't understand. I know a bit about computers, but smartphones confuse and annoy me. Don't worry too much about it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

I'd buy them a Roku, and show them how the global search works.

Easy answer for anything she searches for. It'll either be free, paid, or not on any of the platforms.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'd suggest [email protected] but you seem down on the idea and we don't have many links there yet.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

She doesn't speak english

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Seems like a good use case for the (very quiet now) [email protected] community

[โ€“] CasualGoalie 5 points 1 year ago

If you are happy to self host at her place raspberry pi with the combo: radarr, jellyfin and jellyseerr is what you want. I'm pretty sure the overseer app works with jellyseerr otherwise create icons with the shortcut on her PC. It's easier than Netflix in my opinion. But I understand if her problem is right here, right now kind of problem, where she doesn't want to wait for it to show on jellyfin.

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