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[–] [email protected] 122 points 6 months ago (3 children)

wouldn't want you to make me uncomfortable

How about sign a bill to have proper doors on stalls so no one can see you? Then it doesn't matter.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 months ago

This has nothing to do with bathrooms, privacy, or "protecting women." The entire intent of laws like these is to attack trans people and make it effectively illegal to be trans in public. Fascists need a minority enemy in order to maintain power and we are their latest favourite punching bag.

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[–] toomanypancakes 77 points 6 months ago (4 children)

If I ever go to Mississippi I guess I'm gonna have to piss on the governor's mansion instead

[–] [email protected] 71 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (15 children)

Why would you ever do something so disgusting?

Go to Mississippi I mean, it’s the literal worst state in the worst country.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You don't know how much that means to me as a Texan. I was thinking we were the worst, but you give me hope.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago (1 children)

As a former Floridian, I thought Florida was the worst.

No, wait, I'm pretty sure Florida is still the worst, but Mississippi is going to be joining Florida on Erin's Do Not Travel list. :(

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[–] Phegan 69 points 6 months ago (2 children)

People are starving and unhoused and this is the shit they choose to focus on. People should be mad

[–] [email protected] 56 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

People are starving and unhoused and that's exactly why they're focusing on this. To distract people from the source of their actual issues. Bread and circuses.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (5 children)

As a circus performer, I'd rather not be dragged down to the level of these shit heads.

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[–] ameancow 10 points 6 months ago

The people sliding the checks under the table to the politicians pounding this worthless wardrum day and night are the same people who profit greatly on the idea that there are people who have, and people who have not. As long as this dichotomy is preserved at all costs, the system remains stable and the rich stay rich and the poor stay poor where they belong: supporting the wealthy with their low-wage labor, and the vast, complicated spectrum in between.

Trans people became the latest convenient target because they're such small segment of the population. They're being singled out exactly because they're easier targets than a racial or ethnic minority. Not that they've stopped pointing at ethnic and racial minorities, but they know that more people will push back a lot harder on overtly stated ideas of racial superiority.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I was talking to my therapist yesterday about this, before this news dropped. How I couldn't wait to get my new ID card with an F on it so that I could finally go to the bathroom without too much fear. If someone happened to spot that maybe I was trans, I could just put it out and say "look, I'm a woman" and walk away.

But she was in disbelief at this. She genuinely couldn't wrap her head around the idea of someone making a scene because a trans person was in their bathroom. Like, at first, she thought I was blowing up a non existent issue. "Who would do this?!", she asked, And I told her it was an actual issue that lots of people were doing it and therefore lots of trans people avoided the bathroom like the plague.

And when I told her about some US states new laws, taking Utah as an example, her jaw dropped. She had this look of utter disappointment, like I had just chipped away a piece of her faith in humanity.

Not only did the idea never crossed her mind, she couldn't even conceive why it would be a problem. I laughed at this and told her: "That's because you're a normal person."

Just wanted to share this with all of you, especially fellow trans people. It's good to know that while some people are mentally deranged at the idea of my existence, It not only seems to be a very loud minority, but it also seems to be a repellent for a lot of people who cannot grasp their obsessions.

Seeing someone who isn't really aware of our issues in the first place being shocked at these things was relieving. It felt good and gave me hope.

[–] FlyingSquid 44 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Even though I rationally understand it, I still have a hard time wrapping my head around it. Let someone shit in peace. If I'm in the men's room and someone comes in there that looks like a woman dressed as a man, I couldn't care less.

In fact, if someone came into the men's room and looked like Marylin Monroe in the famous white dress, I couldn't care less.

Piss, shit, whatever.

Just don't talk to me. I'm not in there to make friends.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Imagine going to the bathroom, just to take a shit! How fucking weird, right? (/s)

...seriously, I wonder what these people imagine we're doing in the bathroom. Or hell, what are they doing in the bathroom that warrant such worries?

[–] FlyingSquid 25 points 6 months ago (3 children)

They like to bring up the "a man could wear a dress and go into the women's room and rape a little girl" canard. To which I reply, "they'd probably get away with that more easily if they wore a janitor's uniform. We really should ban janitors from bathrooms."

They don't care for that suggestion.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago (9 children)

I may be pulling something out of my ass but I honestly can't be bothered to check. But, wasn't this something that was said about lesbian women too? That they shouldn't be allowed in women's bathroom because they would pry on other women and so on?

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[–] captainlezbian 14 points 6 months ago (2 children)

There’s three acceptable forms of communication in the restroom: functional (eg after you), quick compliments on outfit/makeup (some dislike it but it grew on me), and the far too drunk lady who speaks the wisdom she cannot possess

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 6 months ago (5 children)

The thing that gets me with this is, how is anyone to know?

If you present as the gender on the door, what are they going to do? Rip your pants down and check? Cop a feel? That’s assault. Peep through the stall? Pretty sure that’s a misdemeanor, most places.

I get the idea behind this is terror, but “Fuck off! I’m shitting here!” should be the only response anyone should get to a nosy question in the bathroom.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

It's because these people have the "we can always tell" mentality. But then they're the same people who go harass trans guys on Twitter telling them that they will never be women....

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[–] acetanilide 14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Well considering that one woman literally pulled another woman's skirt down (not all the way) because she felt it was too short, in front of other people, and then called 911 herself, I wouldn't put it past someone in a bathroom to do worse if they "suspected" someone was trans, whether or not they actually are

Also I'm sorry for all the commas but I already did it and I don't want to edit it lol

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[–] [email protected] 55 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Can't wait for all the dudes walking into the ladies room simply because of chromosomes. They never consider the reverse when dog whistling...

[–] GoddessOfGouda 56 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Pretty sure this already happened to a trans guy once and you wouldn’t guess what they did…. They were mad about a man in the women’s room 🤦‍♀️

[–] [email protected] 34 points 6 months ago (1 children)

He got beat up and arrested.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 months ago

You how they say, "it's not a bug, it's a feature"? Well...

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[–] GoddessOfGouda 38 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Can trans people sue cis people for harassment then?

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon 34 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I would always always always rather go to the bathroom with a trans person rather than a conservative. Those people are truly dangerous, and trans people are awesome. They also are not the ones who randomly decide to shoot someone for existing.

All conservatives are trash.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Mississippi governor volunteers to be a piss-bucket

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Let the rest of NA band together and start calling them pississippi and let their residents scratch their heads

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[–] IphtashuFitz 28 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Ok, so what if dad brings his 3-year-old daughter into the men’s room, or mom brings her infant son into the ladies room? Can I sue over the emotional trauma that caused me?

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I assume that integrated into this bill are guaranteed rights that trans people can countersue for harassment and defamation if they are misgendered while using the legally mandated bathroom.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Typical fascist America.

In fascist capitalist America, they check your genitalia before you use the bathroom.

Every American criticizes North Korea and China for much less.

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[–] FlyingSquid 25 points 6 months ago (2 children)

You don't have to live next to me

Just give me my equality

Everybody knows about Mississippi

Everybody knows about Alabama

Everybody knows about Mississippi, goddamn

Nina Simone sang it about the black experience in Mississippi in the 1960s. With a couple of minor lyrics changes, it could be about the queer experience today.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 months ago

Oh, awesome! Cause that's what I need when I'm struggling. I don't need health care. I don't need a livable wage. I don't need equal rights. I need to sue trans people.

See? Repubs are giving us a path to success. Just sue a trans person who maybe has no money to pay out and everything is fine!

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Those poor judges who want to deal with legitimate cases

[–] jeffw 17 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Oh the fifth circuit is SO excited for this

Edit: I had to google to double check, but yes, Mississippi is part of the fifth circuit (ones of the most conservative appeals courts in the USA)

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That governor looks like an adult baby. Creepy pedo vibes for sure

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[–] cley_faye 20 points 6 months ago

Today, in "problems only people that check other people's private in bathroom have"…

[–] njm1314 19 points 6 months ago (4 children)

If by some foul twist of fate I ever find myself in Mississippi, and by some cruel trick of the Gods I have to use a bathroom in mississippi, and someone while I'm peeing decides to look and check to make sure I have a penis my first instinct would be to shoot that person.

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[–] Donjuanme 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I was wondering if Alabama would somehow be the worst for a while, there's always Mississippi

[–] robocall 15 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Where are people supposed to shit?!

[–] FuglyDuck 13 points 6 months ago

Where does their state congress meet? Inside their desks sounds reasonable to me.

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[–] TheControlled 14 points 6 months ago

This is some hardcore Jim Crow level shit.

[–] FanciestPants 13 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I'm not Trans, and abso-fucking-lutely don't want anyone asking what I've got between my legs anytime I need to take a shit.

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[–] nifty 13 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Does this also affect any private establishment that wants to have a non-gendered bathroom? Like can those businesses sue the government for overreach for putting an onerous burden on their business for needing more than one bathroom?

[–] Burn_The_Right 13 points 6 months ago (8 children)

Conservatives are cockroaches.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Cockroaches are just a nuisance. Republicans are cancer.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago

Sounds like people need to start suing the Mississippi governor every time they use a bathroom and demand a genital exam.

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