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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by willis936 to c/unpopularopinion
 

I find the quality and variety of discussions on the fediverse to be lower than what I had on reddit. Lemmings have strong preconceived notions and little interest in changing viewpoints from new information. I think I'll be switching back.

Edit: you'll find that most of the comments deny any shortcomings of the culture and go directly to invalidating my opinions via character assassination. If lemmy was a community that actually stood for the ideals which it espouses it would take constructive criticism in the spirit in which it was intended. QED.

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[–] qooqie 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

So lemmy is somewhat an echo chamber sure, but I feel if you word it nicely and approach with an open mind you can have really good conversations if you don’t agree with a topic and want to understand more. Whereas on Reddit I find it extremely difficult to have actual conversations

Also sorry for the huge run on sentence

[–] Aux 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You can't approach Nazi and tankie incels with an open mind.

[–] qooqie 4 points 9 months ago

Fair, but who even would want to?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (13 children)

The main problem with it is that there isn't enough users

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago
[–] I_Has_A_Hat 4 points 9 months ago (3 children)

A few topics that can not be discussed on Lemmy unless you agree with the hive mind:

Israel/Palestine

Crypto

Antidepressants

The Death Penalty

Literally anything related to Elon Musk

Hollywood using diversity to hide low quality writing

Modern cars/city infrastructure

(This is not a complete list.)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

Hollywood using diversity to hide low quality writing

This is an allowed topic on [email protected], as long as it is part of a discussion thread related to a specific film or show. Feel free to create a thread if the film or show you want to discuss doesn't have one yet.

[–] dpkonofa 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Don’t forget Apple. Even if you don’t own any Apple products, you have to talk shit about Apple products and anyone who uses them or you’ll lose your Lemmy card. Talking positively about Apple or their products is an immediate downvote and owning one of their products is treason.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Don’t forget Brendan Eich/Brave.

[–] PanoptiDon 3 points 9 months ago

Agreed, but(t) fuck Spez.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Yes. In addition, there's a lot of hostility towards different viewpoints. Little acceptance that different takes are valid.

I'm not switching back, but I might not stay here either.

[–] TORFdot0 2 points 9 months ago

That happens in any online space. The internet is not a great place for that kind of discourse because it lacks the context that you have with people that you associate with in real life. When you talk about politics with a family member, coworker, or friend with who you have a disagreement with, you know the experiences that they had in life and led them to hold that belief and so you believe that their viewpoint is genuine and so you look to change their mind. Online the person on the other, you know nothing about so you are more likely to be frustrated with them and consider them a troll or political enemy.

The secret is knowing when to disengage with someone online because otherwise you will get jaded.

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[–] Brkdncr 3 points 9 months ago

The niche topics are expanding on the fediverse but it’s not quite there yet.

The general topics on Reddit are full of uninteresting posts and comments. Quality community members have definitely left.

I can’t tell if you think it’s an echo chamber because there are too many like-minded people here, or if your opinions generally fall apart under scrutiny. You may want to evaluate this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

You might want to try Hexbear or The_donald if your goal is to discuss "strong president".

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