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It definitely sounds like perhaps your priorities are different, maybe it's worth addressing with him. Just a calm, quiet chat.
"I was thinking about our dates and time together and realised we do a lot of things you like to do and I haven't been advocating for myself. I would appreciate you making the effort as well"
Or something long those lines. If you're just feeling like you're completely incompatible then the chat might not be worth it.
Absolutely agree.
Now I have to think about what I want to do...